Your husband is a grown man, he can take care of himself...your kids, however, need you, right? WRONG! All of our sources tell us that we will live to eternity with our husband so he needs to be our #1!
Learn how to prioritize your husband even if he isn't aware you are doing it - since on a spiritual level it changes you into a better wife. As Leah points out, the more clarity you have of what's important to you -- YOUR HUSBAND -- the less stress you will have in your life.